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Seeing God ...perhaps for the first time - by David A. Nelmes

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Truth cannot be threatened, but it can be hidden; and now the time for hiding has passed. Your loving and eternally patient Creator loves you and has provided a way for you to step away from any confusion and heaviness and walk towards experiencing a loving and peaceful life. This book is one of His answers.

I know where you are because I was at those same crossroads. I was raised with Evangelical Christian and Pentecostal beliefs, and this created a very firm and mighty depiction of who God was. Similar depictions of God are also shared by Mormon's (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints), a Jehovah's Witnesses, Seventh Day Adventist's and other extreme or rigid belief systems. As I grew older, I often struggled with how the Bible depicted God’s unloving need to kill and destroy his enemies, and how his unforgiving nature could only be appeased by conforming to his demands and swearing obedience to his requirements … or else. These splinters in my beliefs eventually led me to see past what was written about God and that allowed me to embrace what I felt the real God was sharing with me, that He loved us beyond our capacity to fathom, and that forgiveness was totally unconditional, and already applied without request or demand.

But doesn't everyone already know God is a God of love? Well, yes and no. Many believe He loves, but only when certain conditions are met, or when certain beliefs are embraced.

These splinters in my beliefs eventually led me to see past what was written about God and that allowed me to embrace what I felt the real God was sharing with me...

What happens here is that when God's love is limited to a specific belief system, it can be easy to be deceived into believing a person has obtained some wonderful gift from God, in that God has chosen to love and help them, where those who don't share those beliefs, do not receive this love or help. This, of course, is what defines a religious belief, that God will Love and reward a person for believing a specific way, and that same God will then hate and punish a person who believes differently. This is only possible when assigning God duality, and that results in God being seen as both a God to Love and a God to Fear, and that is simply accepted as normal. As my writings will explain later, not only is this inaccurate, but it is simply not possible.

Many of the answers you are looking for may be found in my book which is based upon a core concept which is clearly illustrated in an excerpt from one of my articles —

By Being Willing to See, You Will Discover a God of Love

There is nothing God requires that you do. There is no payment or sacrifice he requires or desires. There is no path to discover by racking your brain in trying to figure out what it is that God would have you do. There is no physical thing in the entire universe that you need to give God or to those who claim they follow God. There is only one thing that God desires from you and that is for you to Be Willing.

  • Be Willing to see clearly.
  • Be Willing to choose differently.
  • Be Willing to set aside what the world has taught you.
  • Be Willing to be what he would have you be.

Your willingness creates an opening in your being that allows the Holy Spirit to Do things. It allows the Holy Spirit to heal you, teach you and guide you. Learn to Be willing and you'll truly see what God Can Do.

My articles showed a loving and peaceful God, and often pointed out the specific contradictions where he is shown otherwise in the Bible. Some of my earlier articles included a little Bible bashing or Christian bashing, however, this was simply due to unresolved anger at the time. For the most part, my goal was to both express the joy in what I was discovering, and to help those who were experiencing a similar desire to see their beliefs and God more truthfully.

My new perceptions in God were sometimes helped by performing an exercise where I learned to “Step Back” from my position or viewpoint and allowed myself to see the bigger picture and a new interpretation of what I believed were the facts. As you read this book, and something is hard to accept or understand, I suggest you try to “Step Back” and allow yourself to observe that it was inevitable that as a primitive people, we would be fearful of everything we did not understand — especially God. It was also inevitable that a day would come when we would begin to set aside our fears and misconceptions and begin to be more open to see things more truthfully — even if they seemed contrary to what we had been taught for centuries. It’s alright to release old ideas because changing our minds about what our ancestors believed, does not make our ancestors wrong, it just makes their perceptions and beliefs a required and natural step of growth, but not the end of growth.

So now, 20 years later, I have compiled all my writings here in this book in the order in which they were written. When put all together like this, they serve as a platform for experiencing a gradual change in seeing God from a different point of view as compared to what was often served to us from a religious perspective.

As I was editing and preparing the chapters for this book, I realized that during those many years of writing articles, my perception of God, and my concepts of love and forgiveness continued to grow and became even clearer. I could see where some of my earlier articles were out of sync to some degree with respect to how I saw God then and how I saw him now. I was elated to realize that, since it clearly illustrated my growth and evolution towards openness rather than a steadfast retention of assumed truths. But then the question arose as to whether I should update or even remove the older articles. I chose to not update the articles but to leave them as they were because they would be perfect for somebody who ends up where I was, and they might better relate to what I shared at that time.

I still liked that I could see my growth of thought as I reviewed the older articles, so to share these further changes in perception, I added a “Commentary” section after each article in order to provide extra insight and explain what brought upon those changes in perception. I also used this section to occasionally say a few more things that came to my mind during editing.

At the core of my being, I embrace growth, and my articles are both a witness of my growth and the result of my growth. My writings are words from God, for everyone and anyone open to hear them. Even though I have written these articles, I get inspired and experience new growth each time I read them again, and I encourage you to do the same. You can do this with ease because when a person’s heart is open for truth, the fear of change withdraws and is replaced with a peaceful spiritual desire for learning that stimulates new growth and creation.

So, for now, just open your mind to the ideas and concepts I share in this book because they are expressions of God’s love and forgiveness. Read through these articles and open your mind for Spirit to heal your thoughts and lead you to the passages that are best for you to absorb. Then allow yourself to step back from all that you had believed was true. Take a moment to just let it all go and allow yourself to become a blank slate. Take a deep breathe, exhale, and step forward into a loving and peaceful experience where you are totally safe to learn new things, and you may find that you are Seeing God ... perhaps for the first time.

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One of my favorite reviews:

Reviewer: The Prince

Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars

Title: Changed my thinking about the contradictions in the Bible

Coming from the evangelical world into the world of expanded thought, my main stumbling block has been the Bible. I love the 'real' teachings of Jesus but the running debate in my mind kept asking 'which are real.' Theological discussions with my friends led to either indifference or to shouting. The last thing the faithful want is to be disturbed.

Nelmes offers a better solution. He outlines to the reader the higher teachings of Jesus verse by verse, painting a picture of a loving God that does not require sacrifice or even your attention - a God totally complete within its self. At that point, stop! Relish your new-found God. Immerse yourself in the realization that God really is Good. Practice what Jesus taught. Love your neighbors and your enemies. Love the difficult people. Stop judging and begin realizing that life is so much more than you have ever considered. Begin to give wastefully realizing that any gift you give is really given to you. And finally don't judge a neighbor because that neighbor doesn't 'get' what you understand. Forgive and move on. Forgive and move on.

And when the Bible reveals a seeming contradiction to your image of God, place that contradictory image next to the one you have discovered. When it doesn't match discard the contradiction as something from the mind of man, forgive and move on. Absorb the comparisons that Nelmes makes and try to refute his logic. I can't, and I'm pretty good at this.

Lastly, Nelmes talks of a Christianity that is so much more than the one preached from pulpits every Sunday...and one that is infinitely more difficult to practice. I think it was Chesterfield who wrote, "Christianity is not a religion that has been tried and found wanting. It is a religion that has been wanted but never tried." Try it. Try loving the dimwit who just cut you off in traffic or that jerk who swiped your iPhone. A while back people were going around asking what would Jesus do? Now I understand. Jesus would love and forgive. May you discover who you really are.


 

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Here is an excerpt from the chapter called "Contradictions of Spirit":

I am going to help you see the true face of God and we will never leave the words that most Christians revere...but in doing so, I am also going to show you a God who has already forgiven you and has never been angry and is not going to punish you, no matter what you believe. I am going to show you where the Bible makes these things clear..and then, you can determine for yourself where the contradictions may be and why they are there.

For starters, my all time favorite scripture is 1Jn.4:18 which states "Perfect Love casts out fear". This statement makes it clear that the mere presence of love should totally annihilate fear. In the same way as turning on a light switch has the result of making the darkness simply vanish, so does love make fear vanish. Love and fear cannot exist at the same time, in the same place or be used together in any way, since one would annihilate the other in the same way that light annihilates darkness.

Likewise, in 1Jn.1:5 it states "God is light, and in him there is no darkness at all.". This confirms the spirit behind the truth that love and light are identical in the same way that darkness and fear are identical.

If we are to believe that God is love, then we have to also believe that God has no fear and cannot use fear or manipulate it in any way because it simply does not exist where he is. God cannot use fear or be associated with it in any way and still love unconditionally. Since fear and darkness cannot exist where there is love and light, God doesn't even know what those things are. They are foreign to him and they do not even exist for him to use or control.

Of course you might say there are so many other places where the Bible makes it clear that God uses fear and war and death and all kinds of darkness as weapons against his enemies....but I won't list those instances here for you. You find the places yourself where other areas of the Bible contradict this concept of a God that does not use fear or darkness, and when you see the contradiction in the spirit of how our God of light and love is otherwise portrayed, ask yourself this...which one is more likely to be true of a unconditionally loving God.

Moving on, a wonderful little nugget of God's true image fell into my lap recently...and it was in the Bible all along and nobody seemed to see it. This nugget says God was never upset at us. This nugget says that we are the ones who thought we were sinners and guilty before God, but that God is not the one seeing it this way...only we are seeing it this way. We have written volumes of writings and created multiple beliefs to reinforce the concept that God is the punisher of us...but the Bible clearly shows how it is God who is all forgiving and that it is only us who believe we have sinned and are unworthy of his blessings.

Where is this little nugget, take a look at ....

If you can accept, embrace and run with the idea or perception that God is so much more than any belief system could even begin to fathom or describe, then apply this concept to anything you believe you know. Allow yourself to see ideas and beliefs as stepping stones to get to the next clearer perception, and not as concepts cemented in time that you hold onto for generations or even for thousands of years. Even when the disciples asked Jesus about spiritual or heavenly things, he basically said he wasn't going to try to explain such things to them because they didn't even understand most earthly things, so there would be no way they could even begin to comprehend anything he might have tried to share.

Namaste

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Seeing God: Perhaps For The First Time
 
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When you question your beliefs, question the Bible, or question the requirements within the church, these are signs you are seeking the truth and are willing to see things differently. Your loving and eternally patient Creator hears you.